Can You Imagine It...

In my group of friends, i'm the one that no one can imagine getting married which sounds about right :D because i can't even imagine myself getting married. I suppose that makes it the little bit more fun when it comes it to the actual day, if it comes to the actual day. Weddings are so fun to go to, but when we go, most people are probably wishing it was them, or wishing they could go back to their wedding day after all, it is supposed to be the "happiest" day of your life. 

Not going to lie but the thought of marriage does freak me out a little bit, part of me blames the fact that i haven't really been around healthy marriages. I'm scared that i will get married while in love, but then get a divorce because we fell out of love. What if i spend half my life being what in what i think is "love" with someone, only to get a divorce a few years down the line. Media doesn't really help as it publicises those in the public eye who get divorces. It can't be easy being married in the public eye, so i do think media is a cause for divorce...
That being said, it's not to blame for all divorces, and their are some marriages that just get on with it i suppose. So good on the couples who just get through life being married and being in the public eye.

Do i believe in "The One" a little bit, but not really. I do think we just settle for someone who will do. If there only is one person who is our soul mate then we aren't going to have anything to compare the feeling to, we won't know what it is like to be "The One" so we won't know if we are with that person or not. 

But if i was to get married i wouldn't know how i would want it. Having African parents i would definitely want to take control of the wedding, because:

1. I can't be dealing with my family taking control.
2. As i said in my previous post, they don't know anything about me.

I would want to wear a white dress i suppose,  but nothing to fancy because i'm not one for dresses. Although, i may grow out of this phase and become a true "GIRLY GIRL" (lord help us all if that day comes) I say i want a small wedding but i doubt it, being African my family would happily invite the whole neighbourhood . 

Until that day comes though, i'm just going to continue living for the now (Maybe)

Thank you

Naomie 

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